The King’s Speech

Better late than never with a review. The film has only just been released on DVD so we had the treat of seeing it a couple of days ago.

The truth is that I had seen so much hype and so many clips that I wondered if any film could possibly live up to the expectations planted in my soul. No need to worry: as you probably already know, it was outstanding.

So what do I say that hasn’t already been said? Well, first of all I kept wondering when the real tear-jerker bit would come. As it happened, there were several. One of which caught me unawares whilst King George VI was rehearsing for the coronation in Westminster Abbey with Lionel Logue. Colin Firth and Geoffrey Rush were outstanding in the way they sparked off one another to produce a startling but wholly believable performance.

There is something about the present consciousness of the Western World which resonates strongly with this film. I definitely was not disappointed, indeed it might be said that I learnt more about myself from the story. It helps to have knowledge of some of the background, though it’s not mandatory. I did learn that royalty is always royalty and commoners are always commoners……… (unless they marry a royal of course.) More importantly, I recognised the pivotal role of the monarchy in the UK at a particular time in history. Things are slightly different now, mainly because of the growth of the celebrity culture. In the UK we tend towards wanting to know more and more of celebs and royalty, as if to know they are just human after all. True, but maybe a bit dull at times?

So, Dear Reader, let me know what you think about the film, or about royalty, or about how it made you feel.

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Hugh Laurie versatility

 

Amazing talent from the star of House. We found the quirky medical series by accident and are now hooked. Love the music from his debut album too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eCkXpKjjQEo

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The Aftermath

Friday evenings is Dance Class for HBTW and myself. It has resulted in some surprising outcomes:

  1. Stiffness and aching limbs through till Monday each week.
  2. Listening to music everywhere and counting the beat.
  3. Working out what kind of dance to each beat.
  4. Wearing pop-socks and tidy shoes for the first time in years.
  5. Buying 2 skirts……. the first in 6/7 years.
  6. Struggling to wear tights………. successfully.
  7. Trying to remember to stand tall from the bottom up.
  8. Enjoying the regular dose of fun.
  9. Meeting new people.
  10. Lots and lots of laughter.

An update on dances so far: waltz, rhumba, quick-step, barndance jive, modern jive, social quickstep. The last of these is to enable couples to learn to dance in tightly packed venues – not a problem in our community centre, though it has crossed my mind that it might be fun to find other dance places nearby. However, as it is taking me nearly half the week to recover, perhaps that is something to aim for in the future.

Taking up dancing again after a 25-year gap has been a big challenge. We’re not there yet, but watch this space for details of the end of term party.

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Double oven

Not such a pretty picture today – however, it is practical, sleek and shiny – and even better, it fits into the slot left by the old oven. I have to confess that I am not the cook in our house. Umpteen years of feeding growing sproggits and their assorted friends put paid to that. I have the occasional foray into the world of gluten-free baking, but apart from that I restrict myself to boiling an egg or making beans on toast or even scrambled eggs.

So HBTW or Him-with-a-spatula-and-a-spanner set to over the last few weeks to source and fit a replacement oven. Judging by the smells coming from the kitchen, it is already being put to good use.  I tend to be the clearer-upper, so I am glad that it has got self-cleaning sides. I have to admit that seeing any new item of kitchen equipment reminds me of my mother.

That leads to a meander down memory lane. I found this photo of my mother dating from around 1966. It is from a 35mm slide, so the quality is not all that great. She looked happy and youthful here and I found myself thinking how poorly I have aged. Then I realised that in 1966 Mum would have been round about 42……. and I’m 25 years older. Enough said.

Anyway, if you haven’t wandered off you may be wondering why talk of a pristine new oven reminds me of the previous generation. My mother was a housekeeping Diva. Everything had to be kept as new; the floors sparkled and everything smelt of lavender polish. The trouble was that she started to take things too far……. not quite into the level of OCD but not far away. She stopped cooking (so it’s a generational thing with me – drat!) but only because it would have dirtied the cooker. When she died the cooker looked brand new, yet it was over 30 years old.

Even though many of the old memories are sad I’m still glad to have them. They are kind of bitter-sweet. However, it’s true to say that the older we get the more we understand our ancestors. I try to remind the generations after me to ask all the questions they can think of. Especially as it doesn’t look as if I am ever going to write my Opus Freda – though there is now the blog. Flights of whimsy or torrents of anger, glimpses of joy and serious questions.

What questions do you wish you had asked a relative who has now passed on?

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Wordless Wednesday

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Catching up

The good weather has been replaced by typical Scottish spring weather: big black clouds, thunderplumps and brief periods of sunshine. And at the same time there have been two seismic shifts in the world: the death of Osama bin Laden and the newly elected Scottish National Party government in the Scottish Parliament. They might not sound like similar events, but in my head they are.

Terrorism has been a major theme in my lifetime: in places like Aden, Israel, Northern Ireland and here in the UK as the results of political protests work themselves out in wanton acts of violence. There seems to be little in the way of progress; even in the Irish situation there is a resurgence of yet another “new” IRA. And the fear of Islamic extremism is going to be with us for many years to come. I just don’t get the mindset, despite trying to read up on the background of those who perpetrate acts of terrorism, and reading novels which seek to explain ideas of a new state or order as being more important than the individual.

To say that the SNP success in Scotland is of a similar order is tantamount to claiming that there is a coming revolution in the “world” I inhabit. The drive away from other mainline political parties towards a party that by its very existence purports to favour self-government for Scotland, as well as the very real possibility of promoting separatism from the UK feels like a passive revolution. The Prime Minister of Britain is tight-lipped in his assertion that such a break-up must not happen, and it left me wondering why he is so passionate about the status quo.

In truth, I tend towards federalism for the whole of the United Kingdom – with each major region having the same degree of control, and a common policy for issues such as defence and justice. But maybe that would simply cost more and spawn ever-increasing layers of government.

There now – I have been thinking a lot over my few days’ absence. People who read blogs fall into two main categories in my experience: 1) those who want a change from the diet of daily gloom and doom that tends to assault the airwaves from the media; and 2) those who are looking for a change from it.

What has surprised me so much these past few days as I have pondered a blog post, is that my head is so full of what the media wants to fill it with. So, instead of blogging the bright green velvet of spring trees and early moss, I find myself needing to splatt out my scrambled view of world events. That way, at least I get space in my head for some more pleasant thoughts.

Has anyone else ever had a week like that? And what do you think of the way our heads get filled up with stuff over which we have little or no control?

PS – Misty says I’ve to get over myself!

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The Wilderness

The Wilderness is a very worthy book. Sorry if that sounds petulant, but it is one of those novels which attracts overly-effusive descriptions by the quality papers.

I heard it being discussed on a TV programme during World Book Week, and thought it sounded interesting. Basically it was described as a story about someone who was suffering from Alzheimer’s. Not exactly cheery reading, but it sounded intriguing.

I added it to my amazon list and waited till I had several things in the out-basket. The parcel arrived and then came the moment of truth. I have to admit that if I had picked the book up in a bookshop, it would probably have been put down pretty quickly. The style was clearly convoluted and what I would call a bit arty.

Now I am not usually a lazy reader, but I have struggled on and on with Samantha Harvey’s first novel. Eventually, when I was two-thirds through I decided enough was enough. I gave up – with some reluctance, because I don’t like being beaten. To me the stream of consciousness which wavered and meandered interminably, became more than I could bear. It was no longer clear to me what was present, what was past and what was happening. Maybe that was the point of the book.

Can you guess that I didn’t like it? I would be really interested to hear if anyone else has read it, or to hear your thoughts on highly-recommended books shortlisted in special prizes. For now, I heave a sigh of relief and return to my Nicholas Sparks library book. (More on that later.)

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Dreams

Hold fast to dreams
for if dreams die,
life is a broken-winged bird
that cannot fly.

Hold fast to dreams
for when dreams go,
life is a barren field
frozen with snow.

Langston Hughes.

Have you any dreams to share?

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Verger celebrates

Thought this video was appropriate – one person letting off celebratory steam. Have had a wonderful day watching the Royal wedding. It’s ballroom dancing tonight, who knows – maybe a cartwheel or two will be in order. Brilliant, brilliant day. Every Blessing to William and Catherine.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Awj7xXv8N3w

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Getting to know him

Knowing your dentist is definitely important.  I’ve told you before about the trauma that going to a new dentist can bring. Yesterday was a follow-up visit to do a filling – right in the centre, so I was in quite a state about the need for the dreaded injection that shoots right up your nose and into your brain. Far worse than the similar if lesser, ice-cream up the nose to the brain.

Said dentist is so cheery and bright, as well as having a nice accent. And OK he is young and good-looking. Not too young though, that would never do. The usual pleasantries over he approaches my mouth with a drill, What, no injection? squeaks I. No need, he replies, with such confidence that I am lulled into silence.

And do you know what?
He was right.

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