The Love Book

B2012 BookthelovebookThis is the first of Fiona O’Brien’s books that I have read. She has a difficult style to get used to. Although there are three main characters, she employs the method of multiple time changes and a story told through the medium of many more minor characters. This can be confusing, but it keeps the reader alert, and as the stories unfold the sheer momentum of each vignette draws the reader onward.

The Love Book is hardly great writing, and though it is principally about love O’Brien analyses the thoughts and feelings of the characters in a way which piques interest. In other words it is saved from being a plain old Mills & Boon love story by the skills the author employs in her craft. Having said that, the publishers are Hodder and Stoughton so you know what you are getting.

If you are looking for a pleasant read with a slightly challenging style, then this is for you. The characters are well drawn and contrast well with each other. I will certainly read more of the author’s offerings, and give it a 7 out of 10.

 

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Keep on Dancing

Last night was Dance Class and  it was also Valentine’s Day, so our Dance Teacher had  suggested we have a social night. Not a regular dance, just informal. What fun we had. Everyone brought snacks and something to drink, and several brought extras. These included red, heart-shaped balloons, home-baked scones and pancakes, heart-shaped chocolates and different sorts of nibbles.

We had all been asked to wear something red. One member appeared with a crazy red wig and long patterned red skirt. Everyone had a turn of wearing the wig.  When trying to paint a word picture I should get you to imagine a modern community hall, dimmed lighting, one long table for 15 people – all of them being over fifty. We are a sprightly lot though. At least the others are, I suspect I am one of the least sprightly. . . . . . . . . stiffness and fibromyalgia often go together. Where I do score is in the laughing stakes.

Another thing to point out is that at many a dance, hardly anyone gets up on the floor to get on with the dancing. At Dance Club socials, everyone is up as soon as the music starts –  all trying things out. New steps, old steps, with help, without help. . . . . . everyone having a great time. It is at times like these that I realise how fortunate we are to live in such a friendly village.

Many thanks to M&M!

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Ralph Waite RIP

B2014 RalphwaiteI was saddened to hear of the death of Ralph Waite, a favourite actor of mine from long ago and still making appearances in TV programmes nowadays.  In the 1970s he was one of the lead actors in the Waltons – how many times did our boys used to call out Night Mum. . . . Night Dad. . . . Night John-Boy . . . .?     More recently he played the part of Mark Harmon’s character’s father, in NCIS. Funny how we came across him both in his younger days and then in old age. He came across with just the right degree of gravitas.

I feel as if there is a kind of connection with people who share this earth with us. And of course with actors and celebrities, we can feel a closeness simply by being exposed to their public personna. In hearing some of Waite’s obits on the news, I was pleasantly surprised to  hear that he had been an ordained presbyterian pastor. However, I was saddened to learn of his difficulties with alcoholism in his younger life.

Nevertheless he was someone with a charismatic presence onscreen.
May he rest in peace.

 

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Technical problems

Apologies if you have been trying to take a look at this site only to find an Error message. There have been some technical problems. All seems ok now, so here goes with a little reflection on how our lives are involved with computers.

Just this week I have been speaking to several people, each with a different outlook on our technical age.

  1. Person #1 does not have an internet connection at home and relies on the local library. Whilst being fairly computer savvy this person is deeply worried about the chance of there being a meltdown in computer-land, thereby affecting banking, insurance, media and so forth.
  2. The next person is half a generation older than me and is disinclined to take the laptop out of the drawer and put it on. #2 recognises that being in touch via email has its advantages, indeed they see that there are business opportunities that are missed because of their lack of immediate online capabality.
  3. Another person in that same generation is trying to learn to have instant access via broadband whilst also learning the art of using social media.  This #3 person has not yet given up, though the threat is always there.
  4. This next one is using the computer grudgingly, aware of the pros and cons but still suspicious of the world’s dependency on something which could so easily go kaput.
  5. Lots of younger persons are flying. . . . . . . . laptop in schoolbag, mobile smartphone in pocket, multi-screen access on desktop ready for homework. . . . . . nothing will hold them back. Frightening? or Encouraging?

Bloggers like me are of all ages/generations and in the main are determined to get the most out of life, happy to share their thoughts and dreams with others . . . . . at least to a certain degree. We will usually shop, bank, learn, do business, dream and contact friends and family using a keyboard and mouse (or mobile phone.)

What an amazing world.

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Little treats

B2014 icreate129I enjoy getting magazines through the post. Regular monthly ones come from Caravan & Camping Clubs, The National Trust, Saga, and Weight Watchers.  But I have discovered a new online source for individual copies of magazines.

iCreate should arrive tomorrow so counts as a Pre-Birthday Month treat. I am hoping it will improve my mac skills.

It is all a long cry from the days when I longed for a Tuesday each week so that my Beano comic would be delivered. . . . . . . . a magic world full of characters who got the better of the grown-ups. When I was working in the insurance industry I devoured CII Monthly – they even commissioned an article from me once. (In retrospect, it wasn’t very good.) Then of course there were the years at university, training for the Ministry – the magazine of choice then was Theology. I revelled in the articles, editorials and arguments in the Letters section.

Nowadays, much of our information comes online and I wonder how long magazines will continue to be produced. I like the idea of getting magazines on my ipad, that seems more like a magazine experience, but I have to confess that I think they are still rather overpriced.  Maybe that will change given time.

 

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It is starting to snow

2012 BurnAnd now the snow comes . . . . . . . winter stealing in silently and with stealth.

Perhaps our trip to town will be cancelled tomorrow. When the weather does this there is nothing to do but to go with it. Lots of activities to choose from.

Happy Wednesday.

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Mooc Week 5

B2014 CannabisplantsThe Strathclyde University’s Forensic mooc has been getting progressively more detailed and correspondingly more difficult. This week we were deep into the different categories of drugs and the ways they are treated by different countries and the United Nations.

We still managed to get 12 out of 12 when it came to question time, but I am in no way tempted to undertake the online “examination” which is promised next week at the end of the course. Apparently it will give an accreditation that is useful for people who are involved with these topics in their work or studies.

It continues to be interesting, though I do confess that last week’s biochemistry was almost more than I could cope with. What has happened, is that I am much more astute in matters of forensics – at least at the level of media coverage, books, films and TV programmes. Watch out Midsomer, a more educated audience awaits you.

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When some in the world long for water to drink,
Others long for floods to subside.

When some long for peace and quiet,
Others long for someone to talk with.

When some can no longer hear,
Others hear bad things about themselves.

Holy One, reach out to all of us
According to our needs, before we even whisper
This prayer.

Colonsay sunrise

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An odd kind of treat

An odd kind of pre-Birthday Month treat is news of the day.  My blood pressure has been proving difficult to control, so on Friday I was prescribed yet another tablet – a new kind of tablet to add to the arsenal. The good news is that I have taken it and there were no side effects.

Good news of a kind!

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Changing and Ageing

I’ve come to the conclusion that change is quite difficult for me nowadays. I used to be someone who embraced change and loved doing new things. Not so much anymore. Take yesterday, for instance. . . . . . . .

Around 20 years or so I had to register with a new dentist – we had moved area. No #3 Son came with me for a first visit, he was fifteen. Afterwards, we both agreed that our new dentist must have been all of fourteen years old. (Having said that, he was quite good.)  Yesterday, I had my first appointment with the person who now turns out to be my new regular dentist. He looked about twelve. So here we have two propensities of senescence: – 1) Disliking change; and 2) Persons in positions of importance seem even younger. To be fair, he was a competent and pleasant young man.

Was there an intake of breath when you heard me refer to senescence? Don’t worry, it’s not that I have gone mad in my pre-Birthday month and am admitting that seventy is indeed old age. Rather, bedtime reading at the moment is What are old people for?  by WH Thomas. And I am on the chapter which equates adolescence with senescence. Real old age is saved for the term Elderhood. It has some interesting ideas about Elders being important for the well-being of the world. But I am not quite convinced yet – we get too much of the other kind of publicity on the media – you know, about how dire it is that by 2020 25% of the UK population will be over 20.

One thing that sticks in mind is the author’s assertion that when we are in the prime of life we should be happy to look after Older People, so that our descendants will be equally happy to shoulder the financial responsibility for us in turn. It sounds very like the moral requirement to treat others as you wish to be treated yourselves.

Philosophising over – it’s time for Dance Class!

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