Wimbledon and Tennis and a bit of nostalgia

Watching Wimbledon is a regular mid-summer event for me. In days long ago my Dad used to take a week of his holidays so that he could watch the second week’s action. Tennis in my childhood played a huge part. Of course it wasn’t like nowadays where young hopefuls are sent to tennis academies, we just spent every available daylight hour from April to September in tennis shorts haunting the local club.

So Wimbledon in particular for me evokes wonderful memories. We could never afford to go, at least not until a boyfriend took me to my first Centre Court match when I was seventeen. Even then, we had to stand. That was in the days before all seated courts, and I’m sure it wasn’t particularly safe. Sad to say, I cannot even remember who was playing, except that it was a ladies’ single. The looking back and forth to either end of the court made my neck ache and subsequently I ended up having a rest in the St John’s Ambulance tent. Happy days! Not like yesterday, when Andy Murray failed to secure a set from Nadal.

I must have been around twelve when these photos were taken. The state of the grass on the court and leaves on the trees mean that it was well into the season.

Looks like I meant business in the blazer. Must have been watching too much TV.

But how is this for lounging?  Clearly I fancied myself. There was something about being dressed in the right kit in those far off days that marked one out as a club player rather than someone who had to make do with the public courts and a bit of a knock about. I continued playing for much of my life, though have to confess that the last time I tried to “play” a game was almost a disaster. The competitive spirit was still there, even though it was only five years ago. Let’s just say that my fitness and agility were practically non-existent.

Now where is the nearest tennis court?  Oh well, it will probably be full to bursting with young people in the first flush of enthusiasm. Just like I used to be.

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Nostalgia

Don’t ask me what set me down nostalgia trail the other evening; I found myself on youtube looking for videos of Muffin the Mule. Television was in its infancy in the post-war years in Britain, and I suspect I was fortunate in living in London at the time. Innovations came our way first. Even if it was by way of a 9 inch black and white set on the sideboard.

But did I really watch Muffin and Sooty when I was ten or eleven years old? Can you imagine it nowadays? Young people are more interested in High School Musical, technology or the environment.

However if you happen to need a five minute break, this little video will hopefully give you a lift and make you smile. If you have got the time to look, do let me know what you think. Oh and by the way, it is a useful lesson on how to use puppets with children. Charlie the raccoon was my puppet of choice when I did Children’s talks, and I know it would have been useful to have some some lessons on puppetry and story-telling. He used to sleep on the communion table and pop up at appropriate moments in a Service. He also went down quite well with the younger children at school.

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Search engines

Search engines have always tended to confuse me. But over the years I have got better at typing in keywords and even phrases or questions, to help me get to the places that will have the information I need. It’s amazing what you can find this way. Of course you’ve got to be careful what you type in. I won’t illuminate, but use your imagination and you will soon realise that the internet can be a scary place.

All that said, the following are included in yesterday’s search strings for this blog. (And, No, I don’t always get it either!)

  • freda blog
  • campervan tales
  • set waymarks for doubtful feet
  • story dalamory
  • as the deer pants for the water
  • god is not foreign to my freedom

And yet, if you look at the cloud-words graphic on the sidebar, you won’t see much that coincides with this little list. Indeed I seem to be rather keen on blogging about Misty, (so no surprises there) as well as dogs and cairn terriers. Oh dear! Death is bigger than church, spirituality is in very small print and God doesn’t even get a particle in the cloud. Hmmm, I wonder if I am getting lazy in my retirement? I shall have to pull my socks up.

How do other bloggers choose their topics?
And by the way, Happy July.

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A Good Woman

Helen Hunt is one of my favourite movie stars, she never disappoints, indeed her understated classic delivery is always a pleasure to watch; she makes each role her own. So last night I was delighted to curl up with the dog and indulge myself for 93 minutes of sheer enjoyment. A Good Woman is based on the Oscar Wilde play – Lady Windermere’s Fan. The original was first performed in the theatre in 1892, but the modern adaptation is set in 1930.

Wilde’s language is evocative, and seems to have translated to the period of the 1930s effortlessly – thanks to the screenplay by Howard Himelstein. The supporting actors are equally good, you can see the cast list here. They are mainly British and well known faces, such as Tom Wilkinson and Stephen Campbell Moore. Scarlett Johansson as the young Mrs Windermere is a perfect match. The settings are stunning, the dresses magnificent and the ethos of the whole is whimsical and charming. Just the thing to chase the economic blues.

And by the way – the Amazon DVD is only £3.99. Couldn’t be a better investment for the dvd library.

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Being positive

Have decided to be more positive today. There was a temptation to continue to rant about the Government, the cuts, the economy, the bad things…….. and so forth. Then I thought about the peaceful time we had with Misty at the river yesterday on our walk. It was warm, there was the buzz of insects (some of them you had to duck from) and just sitting for a

few minutes watching and listening was therapeutic and soothing. A dipper relentlessly squawked and bobbed up and down, but I couldn’t see if there was a nest near. The sandmartins were whizzing and wheeling around overhead and diving into their holes in an overhanging banking. Gradually, all the negative media pressure drifted away. Deep breaths and being at one with nature – how precious.

In a long distance shot you can see how empty of water the river really is; and what you don’t get in this perspective is the fact that the channel is in reality quite deep. Don’t be fooled by those clouds, in actual fact the weather was muggy and hot. There was even a hint of thunder rolling around the hills. We tried to walk gently along the river-smoothed pebbles and stones, and managed not to slip and slide too much. The water was teeming with tiny little fish – food for the herons and the oyster-catchers.

Misty gave way to temptation and did her usual sploshing about in the water, at one point she put her head under water and ended up not being able to see for the hair plastered in front of her eyes. She came up for air and shook her head obviously wondering why the world had gone dark.

As I sit at my desk this morning and think of all the walks over all the years with all the children and all the dogs, I feel truly blessed. When all around you is gloom and doom and fear, it is worthwhile reflecting on the important things in life. They will be different for each of us.

You see….. there I go again. I guess it is something to do with my training, first as an insurance broker assessing risk, then as a minister thinking about how events affect every individual person. I cannot help but think of the people for whom children are not a blessing. Either because they have none, and perhaps wish it were otherwise, or because they do have little ones and simply cannot cope. The secret of happiness is to make the most of what you have. In the western world we are still remarkably well-off compared to elsewhere in the world. So it is important to value each day for the gifts and blessings that it brings. And if sad things come along, we hopefully will have built up a resilience and/or faith that will carry us through.

Now – do I apologise for what is sounding remarkably like a sermon? Or do I forgive myself and go and have a smooth, rich, frothy cup of ethically sourced Columbian coffee?

No contest.

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Getting the oil spill

Saw this link on Feel Free to Laugh. If you press this link you can see what the oil spill would actually mean in your part of the world. It’s quite frightening and helps us to appreciate what it means for the people of Florida.

I keep hoping that the earth will find ways to clear up our mess, but then I read things about the “plastic soup” in the middle of the Pacific Ocean and wonder what is going to happen. For instance, yesterday I walked down a path near us, (on our regular route to walk the dog,) and there was a crisp packet. On the way back I picked it up and stuffed it in my pocket. I drew the line at all the other detritus that had found it way into an adjacent corner – you can only go so far.

Guess what? Today there was another crisp packet. What’s your view on litter and how we can educate people to care about their local environment?

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The right kind of primates

Had to share this post from My Manner of Life – especially the video. Try and look at it if you can. It’s well worth it on what may have been a hard Sunday for some.

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God’s children

Naomi, who writes at Little Red Hen put an interesting comment on my blog post about Looking on the Bright Side. She suggests that the challenge for older people is to find ways to be positive with our children and grandchildren. And in a way it is true for the lead that Oldies can give in these difficult economic times.

Interestingly from my point of view, I have been using a meditation for the duration of this past week on God’s children. The following is quite a long quote, from Kahlil Gibran, but it is well worth printing out here in full; he is speaking about children.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.

I realise this may be a difficult quote for those who have no children of their own, but I feel that it stands on a broader perspective for all of us as we mature. We can give our gifts of reassurance and calm blessing to those who come after us. This is what it means to accept that we are all God’s children. The meditation (from my favourite Sacred Space) goes on to say that we are to be calm, reliable, showing a steady love in our own lives, and to offer our children what Jesus offered: time, love, stability, and a readiness to bless.

From a personal point of view, I had happily been going along thinking of this quote in the context of young children, but it gradually dawned that it equally applies to grown children too. They need blessing and calm assurance. In fact when you look at things logically, a bit of spreading quiet love and blessings is a good thing for all of us. I would be interested in hearing what you think.

Blessings on you and your loved ones this Sunday.

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Hectic Retirement

This past week has been both busy and gippy-up. We set off to stay over at Ayr Caravan Club Site as our base for 2 nights. This was to give us the opportunity to go and see the Tinies at their special event of the year – the Dance Concert. They have been preparing for this for some time. James is in his first year and his big sister, Sarah is in her third year. Because they are still very young – 3 and 4, they both slot into the Tiny Tots class. Six dance items and six changes of costumes, entailed fancy footwork and patience from the helpers behind stage. The grandparents present (2 grandmas, 1 grandpa and 1 great-gran,) were privileged to sit out front in the packed auditorium and see the full show. It was exciting, the children ranged in age from 3 to 17 but they all had the same degree of enthusiasm and fun. When the littlest ones came on stage there was always an audible Ahhhhhh. The audience was vocal all through!

Thus you can imagine that it was a case of pacing myself to deal with all the noise and excitement. The dog had to be settled in the campervan on site and trusted to be In Charge. (She did very well.) And as the farewells and praises flowed all was well with my world.  But….

I woke up at 2am with one of those horrid tummy bugs that strikes without warning. Don’t worry, I shall spare you the details; let’s just say it wasn’t over till the birds had long finished their dawn chorus. Never mind, all is well that ends well and being retired we were happily able to take an extra rest day enroute at Invereck Camp Site, Kilmun, by Dunoon. It turned out to be a quieter bet than Ayr, which is currently on the edge of a construction site for the new University of the West of Scotland. Unfortunately the Ayr campus is still being built and is nothing like the link here.

If this week has taught me anything, it is the importance to be prepared to take life as it comes. The opportunities for being with children and grandchildren are to be taken as and when they can, and ordinary activities can become a special event that sticks in the mind for years to come. I suppose it is about building memories for ourselves and for future generations. But more about that in tomorrow’s post.

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Look on the bright side

Well, all was not gloom and doom yesterday – despite the negative way I was feeling. Don’t get me wrong, the budget was as the pundits had thought – pretty Draconian. And I was justified in being upset for the vulnerable. I suspect that things could have been a whole lot worse were it not for the moderating affect of the LibDems.

No, my bright side was not just in the lovely sunny weather, but in the fact that Grandchild #1 passed her driving test. It hardly seems possible that she has finished school and is working prior to going to college, yet she is now a qualified driver. Well done #1 and thanks for cheering my day.

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